“Oh yea I love you”. The words seemed to have rung the inner chords of her heart & embraced her eyes & ears all of a sudden; in the middle of the crowd – both of them felt as if they were the only breaths present – together & forever!!
These 3 bewitching words “I love you” changes lives or the way you think. But they should be more than just words. One must demonstrate intention with tangible action.
All those who find it a bit difficult to translate their inner feeling for their beloved may find in this article few ways to make things easier.
- Carry a tune: Well, a song can describe your feelings for your beloved. If you are talented enough to write a love song for someone special in your life-just go for it.The first-hand effect of such songs comes out with wonderful colors. Even if you are unable to write something for that person, just think of a song that reminds you of her/him – hymn it when both of you are together . It may even become “Your song” – a song the 2 of you cherish for the rest of your lives.
- Gift your love: Sometimes it’s good to make your beloved feel special – on any day – to let them know how much you care.Try to know more about his/her choice of color, what works for them. This means gift them what they want not what you would like them to have!!!! Gifting such simple things can do wonders for your lover. So just do it.
- Red Rose: Red is the color of love. People in love start loving red roses. For a lover gifting a rose is like giving a kiss, it’s a nice & sweet gesture of love.When you are in love with someone, gift him/her a red rose which actually means your saying I Love You. This has been a part of old black& white era, but it’s an all time hit!
- Dine Out together :Men, take her out for a dinner in some lovely cozy restaurant & ladies, all of a sudden chalk out a plan for a dinner outside for a change.It’s good to bring such exciting surprises at times to make each other happy.Afterall,life is too short & these memories of togetherness will remain forever to smile back upon.You can even cook some special dishes of his/choice & arrange for a candle light dinner at home only.This would be the best idea of sharing few good hours aloof from the world & who knows. He/she can feel your love too?
- A Ring: There should always be a thing to remember your relationship.A ring is one such thing! Choose the right ring for your partner.But make sure you do not send wrong signals in your relationship.If you guys are comfortable being freinds only,buy him/her a frienship ring for eg.specially for men -do not gift an engagement ring after a few weeks of dating.Take your time and enjoy the ride before you get all cow boyish.
- Love Letters: They are special – some people keep them safely for their whole lives, like it were some most precious treasury. Love letters reveal the emotional side of a man or a woman.There are people who fail to express their emotions verbally,but writting it down makes it more easy to express your feelings for him/her.Such letters can be a poem/a song/ or even a drawing only.
- A Warm embrace: Nothing can be more cozy than your beloved’s warm embracing arms.In every relationships, giving a warm hug can bring sparks between each other.It can be stress buster, tension reliever & can bring calmness to some frustating situations.Even resting on your man’s shoulders at the end of the day is same as shedding away all sorts of worries & tensions throughout the day.
- A gentle Kiss: One should know how to kiss first of all…a gentle kiss is much more stimulating than a big wide open mouth-attack. If you want to let your beloved know how much you love him/her, just give a gentle kiss because often because big things do come in small packages.I believe a tender kiss is the best way to say “I Love You”.
- Intimacy: Hmmm….not so fast guys!! This one is especially for men. Take your time & allow your girl to get it on with her. A simple hug, a gentle kiss or a step further can be intimacy to a lady. I don’t want to go deep. It’s for you to understand your girl. Right?
- Just Say “I love You” : The best way to express your love is to say it out in front of your beloved in the language of your heart .it’s a good feeling to hear how much someone loves you or cares for you. Don’t fool yourself by thinking – “of-course I love her, she knows”, everybody wants to hear those 3 satisfying words. One thing you can share is how much happy you feel while being with your mate & remembering it will also keep your spouse knowing that you’re not falling out of love with them and that you have the same feelings for them that you had in the beginning.
So boys and girls don’t hold back, don’t hold it in – Express your love, expression only increases it.
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i have some questions
1) how shud we carry a tune ?
2) Gift : its very Expensive
3) Red Rose : Olden days thoughts
4)Dine out together : Much Expensive
5) A Ring : Very Very Expensive
6) Love Letter : Old Fashion & obsolate
I only liked point no. 7 and 9.. This part is interesting and its absolutely free of cost..
Have you ever done points 7 or 9 ?
Sorry GK…cant reveal this socially….its a secret !!!
Why the word “expensive” is so important for u?
“EXPENSIVE” meaning…have to buy..GIFT, RED ROSE, DINNER, A RING….so i am not interested to buy these 3 words “I LOVE YOU” after giving money …These 3 words should come out from your heart directly without a single penny…
Yes but it is equally important to demonstrate practically . Just like your work idea finally has to come out in photoshop otherwise no meaning of just idea
I agree with GK. come on buying a rose is not a big deal! and talking about gifts, even a simple gift like ” love card – with your feelings written” can work wonders.
Would specially mention point 6 about Love letters. This is really true, and reading them together afterwards can even be very romantic.
Seems like Saswati Di had a great experience of it
Article is good, very well written. But i prefer “My Eye Contact with her”. I just want her to understand my love for her as soon as she look into my eyes…:)
To Nitish: Bah! Bah! kya baat, tum to bara ustad hai is mamle mein..
Do i need to comment here ?
I think Reshma has fallen in love…:-)) ;-P
An author always express his/her feelings by his/her writing…;-)
quite an expensive affair…
Mr. Abhishek, explain how is it expensive????
gift, ring , dinner ..all expensive affair dear. u shd wtch pyaar ka punchnama. lol
Thanks for your compliment on female existence. it clarifies 2 things:
1. Either you have never gifted your girl friend thinking only about the expenses
2. Or you have never made one, thinking of the expenses.
no, it explains the fact tht u can never win a gal with use of peripherals. lets not underestimate gals who wud fall for men on basis of gifts and chocolates.
as far as my nature goes, hope we meet someday…u cn then judge me better. till then keep all assumptions on hold.
Abhishek & Khusbhoo,love can’t be measured by gifts…for me the most important is to be with that person or that person is there with & for u always!!His/her presence is the most precious present for us!!
& & it’s priceless!!
But,u know at times it feels good to express ur feelings…it makes both feel happy about it.
i have given 10 options…it’s not necessary you have to buy a gift or a rose or go for a dinner…u can even go with the point:10 which is the best of all
U R RIGHT RESHMA.
hey..abhishek i think u have have not read the article it guides you to express your feeling or how u can approach ur loved ones… those three words cannot be measured in terms of gifts
No Raj, all i meant is tht gals nwdays r not so bothered abt gifts n ring;. wht thy prefer is a gud sense of humor, intellect and ofcourse a big heart , which may not necessarily be shown wid all these gestures.
Bt i agree wid Reshma, such gestures are sweet, but not a way to win hearts. sadly da crowd here r going mad at me. who cares?
I agree with Reshma…:-) Only point no. 10 is enough to express all your feelings….!
oh!!! What a lovely explanation about Love..:-) Reshma is the next Juliet…;-P But where is our Romeo???
ROMEO !!!!…Which romeo you are talking about piyali. ?? Couple of years back a movie came ROADSIDE ROMEO… It was a dog !!
M not talking about that Dog… That Romeo is already engaged with Kareena.. M talking about some1 else..;-)
Please do not be specific further.
ohhh..really??? may I know who’s that some1 else?????
Well, i suggest you to find it out by yourself. We all can just guess. But you know it much better. Give time to your Life & think about it.
@Godfather : You are still living in 19th century my friend…This is 21st Century and you have to be more fast and furious..Just attempt the main thing otherwise you will be just standing and watching your girlfriend is taken away by someone else…
So guys Attempt step no. 9 first..
Ismail maybe some bad experience in the past ???.
Double hats off 2 u!!!!
Everybody please let ismail make my images in peace !!!
this article was written for a beautiful emotion called “Love”…but the comments have made me think now that i shuld remove the “e” from that emotion….coz there’s so much of motion all around except Love!!
wat’s say frnz??
Everyone should stay in their own limits. Its a public forum, but not a chat forum. Abhishek, Godfather, Nitish, Piyali, Khushboo, etc dont use it as a chat forum. And abhishek, ur views are respected but not in this way bro. this is way to harsh and creating a wrong impact on the article. m sure even others can write in this way but they havnt so u shld also control urslf. And
Well!
Everyone have there own thought.
“Ishq hai to Ishq ka izhar hona chahiye”
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Nice article!!!
Well love is the most beutiful word i have ever come accross the english dictionary…
i am in love wid a gal who cant overcome her past relationship.she knows i love her and she says me to forget her.but i still love her because till now she hasnt said me a single lie.i dont try to hurt her feelings and i dont say her past is past and just forget ur first love…coz i know forgetting first love is quite important.i love her it does not mean i will force her to love me.coz u cant be selfish when u are in love…i just say her u have ur whole life to think and take a decision coz i am gonna wait…
THATS CALLED LOVE…
SORRY ONE MISTAKE…
Forgetting first love is quite *important
*IMPOSSIBLE
Nice thought Reshma…GOOD JOB
Pratik u r rite,we can’t just force anyone to fall in love..
Just be with her in her good & bad times ..love,the feeling can happen anytime…god bless u
i do the same dear hoping she will fall in love one day…
Best of luck Pratik…& do write to me when you two will be together!!
For sure dear…she is mine…i know she has some feelings for me…but she does not express…