Understanding Women – IT’S HER WAY

No one knows what she thinks,

What she wants, whom she loves?

Whom she hates, all we know is that it’s her way.

A girl – gods most beautiful, funny and strange creation .Even at times god wonders, “Is this my creation?” An angel, a princess, a queen – she is all in one. Her kiddish nature at any age makes life innocent and alive. She hates to be called a kid or immature but she loves to be treated like a kid. The best thing in her is she loves and hates the same thing.

Her beauty means a lot to her though she never accepts it. In her childhood, her best friends were Barbie dolls as she loves to be treated like a Barbie by every man – her father, her brother and by her lover too. The innocence which she carries on her face manipulates every love story. Without her every story is lifeless and incomplete. By all her emotional atyachar, she will take out from you every bit of your secret and then it’s no more a secret, yippee!!! She is always a princess of her father. She is the only one who dares to scold her father. The only one who just by her smile or a drop of tear can rock the impossible. When she is happy, she shares it with everyone and makes her surrounding lively and lovely. When she’s hurt, she cries alone either in washroom or in her room with her face engraved in her pillow. She cries every now and then because her heart is too delicate to hold all the pain in it, but when her tears dry up nothing can affect her. She is all done with it. She bears the pain of delivering a life in this world. If she loves you, she can fight with the whole world for you. If she hates you…then nothing, as she can never hate anyone, but if she turns on to take revenge from you, then?! Then be ready to bear her BITCHY nature.

She loves to be praised on every act of her. Praises add glory to her life. She loves to be called beautiful, even if she knows she is not. When she is her way, she is simply the best. If she can kill herself for you then she can also kill you for her own self. She wins your heart just by her smile, but if you play with her heart, she breaks you by her silence. She can never bear a question raised on her character. She loves to speak because she knows someone is there to listen to her. Her desires have no limit, but still she can adapt herself to any situation that comes her way. Out of attitude she may speak “I will never change for anyone” but the story line shows that she thinks a lot and changes at every point of time but the twist is that if she has made her mind for someone or something then even god cannot change her ideology. She doesn’t know how to lie, but when she plays politics, you forget reality. If her support, care and smile can make a home, then her betrayal and cheats can break a home. She loves peace, you know why? Because she gets disturb very easily. It’s said she panics on every small worries ….but it’s by her support in any form that a man wins the race of his life and able to fight back every downfall in life. She loves to shop and roam about a lot. Though she might appears cute and sweet but is always interested in double meaning talks. Her gossipy nature adds feather to her cap. Her judgment about people is just awful. She gets swayed away very easily and then cries. If she argues with you that means she will be sorry soon, but if she keeps shut that indicates she is hurt because her eyes speak more than her words. The best thing in her is that she never forgets anything…not even a word that you spoke to her years ago. It might take time but she will forgive you. She dresses the way you want, she speaks the way you wish. Back biting is her favourite job, though she herself hates it. Many a times she catches the glimpse of every girl, just to see if she is more beautiful than them. If guies stare at her she speaks it loud to the whole world, and if they don’t then she looks at herself in the mirror. She fears cockroach, but when time comes she can even fight with GOD.

She hates when her parents talk about her marriage, though she thinks about it secretly.  At times she knowingly speaks about things that makes you angry ,fight with you  intentionally and then after, she expects from you to make situation light for her, after all a girls fight, rudeness, no, its ok, I will be fine means a lot. Silly she!!!! She messages you not to contact her anymore, but within 5 minutes you surely receives a call from her saying “you don’t care for me anymore na…” She always turn back to bade byeee to her love ones. She might never like the praise of another girl in front of her but will surely praise about another boy in front of you. She is more or less always ready for a click. She loves you to spend on her but the day you say her “I have spent this much on you” the very day you get back everything with interest. Her self-respect, dignity and character matters to her like heaven. She loves walking; she loves when you hold her hand. She always wishes to start everything with a fresh. She loves to cook too. She is friendly till you know your limits. Decency matters a lot to her. If you are 5 minutes late, she can even imagine your dead face. This is how she is. She gets matured early, though it takes time for her to understand the so called beautiful world. She is famous for sharing – clothes, accessories and how can we forget the ‘TOP SECRETS’. She greets you with a smile, though you had a big fight with her last night. She might show that she is not interested in man to man talk or cannot understand it, but she is the first one to smile on it. Stupid she!!! If you had a fight with her then whole of her friend group know about it. First she introduces her friend to you and later on feeling of insecurity will not let her sleep for the whole night. She love simple things, though make simple things complicated. Thanks to her for the lovely songs that are introduced in the market every now and then. She loves babies – “Aww le le le so sweet”. She loves you to sing for her. Just in a fraction of seconds she accepts a new life, a new family, a new name and yet she never complains. She sacrifices every bit of her for you; in return she needs your love and support. She gives you every pleasure of life, even if it gives her PAIN.

A boy may forget his father’s principles, his mother’s care, his siblings love but a girl doesn’t because to her – relation, love, and trust is life. They add essence to her life and she adds essence to everyone’s life whether like a daughter, sister, friend, lover or a wife. She cannot live without it. But her identity, ambitions and her principles are above all. …………She is simply herself – “IT’S HER WAY”!!! [Article View] : 4002